My wicked witch of a mother n law still does not know we are expecting. I’m afraid of them to be honest. I’m Native American mix. This crazy old lady is the most racist person I’ve ever met. She flat out called me a Squaw and told her son she would write a check for a million dollars if he left me. Obviously my hubby refused. She sent her other son to my house to start a fight. This was 2 years ago. JackA$$ shows up and spits in my face. So I grab my 120lb Mastiff and my 110lb German Shepherd and tell him if he doesn’t leave, I’m turning my dogs loose. They were both very protective and hated men. This idiot then punches his brother (my hubby) and calls the police saying I hit him. I end up having a miscarriage after all this....Monster N Law actually took me to the Dr and threatened me the whole way there. I thought she was going to kill me. Cutting through traffic, speeding, and just driving crazy. Yelling at me that I need to leave her son because I’m not good enough. I almost did too...I wanted no part of this white privileged circus. My hubby cut her out and it’s so bad that he didn’t even go to his grandmothers funeral. We are pregnant with our rainbow baby, buying a home soon. I feel torn...I don’t want her to hurt our baby or me. I also don’t want to keep her from her grandchild. My hubby’s ex wife has their twins and son and she cut off all contact with the crazy because she was stealing from the store and giving the stolen items to her grandkids. My hubby has even bailed her out of jail for stealing. She was a crap mom too. My hubbys dad committed suicide and I firmly believe she was the reason. She was an alcoholic but because she’s in her 70’s she’s gotten all kinds of pills from the Dr and I’m not even sure if she knows what’s real or not. My hubby used to be able to call her at certain times only because if her meds hadn’t kicked in she would flip out. Obviously she would never be allowed to be alone with our child. I just don’t know if I should allow contact or not. I don’t want to hurt her like she has me...She thinks because she has millions in the bank, she can walk all over everybody. She also goes to church every Sunday. Needs it more than anyone I know. I just don’t trust them. I also worry that she might try to take us to court for grandparents rights. I don’t have a lot of money to war with this beast. Should we call her and set boundaries right away? A part of me really wants to get a restraining order....