Ever since I got pregnant with my daughter I felt like I was living in a non reality. And ive never felt that maternal bond. My daughter is 1 now and I feel like im still struggling with it. I know shes mine and I love her and would kill anyone who would even look at her the wrong way but I feel like im disconnected from her. So I finally fessed up and told my husband what Ive been feeling because im really starting to think something is wrong with me and the look on his face killed me I know ive let him down. I hate myself for feeling this way and I dont understand why. If I love her why can't I form a bond with her. Im wondering if any other moms have struggled with this before and if so could give me some much needed advice because all ive ever wanted in life is to be a mom and a wife and im failing at both.