Recently broke up with my ex at the end of February. He said that long distance wasn’t his jam and made ton of excuses of why he didn’t want to continue this relationship. In addition, I did make my stance and practically fought for what I loved and believed in—- but he didn’t even move a finger and was quick to remove me from his life.

The odd thing is that I felt used, I would face time him and do what little sexy time we could do on a screen and sent him some nudes. After that, his interest dropped quickly and messages weren’t frequent as they used too. Around Valentines week, his ex messaged and apologized to him—-👀 👀

making it extra suspicious why he was barely spending time with me. He didn’t even directly break up with me and was hitting the bush— which drove me insane— HE GHOSTED ME FOR 5+ DAYS ( how is it you save you cherish and love me but do this???nonono!! How is it you wanted to start a family with me last week then this happens???!)

i rarely cried but i cried for 12 hours that day— it hit me hard but I’m making better progress.

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Lesson learned: get with someone who is willing to put the same amount of effort as you, do not do long distance (in my case)without meeting them before irl, and get someone who is willing to spend time, fight for our love, and just not make a lot of excuses.

Thanks for hearing me out!! Any word of reassurance is appreciated!!