Is your first time having sex supposed to be a bit painful?

Question

I’m just wondering. I’m old enough for sex and stuff now and my boyfriend is ready for it. I’m just wondering what I should expect. I don’t wanna get surprised by anything 😅
Can anyone educate me? 😂 I just wanna make sure I know as much as possible. Thank you! 😊
EDIT:
Thanks so much for all the helpful comments! They’re really helpful for me 😊😄

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You may or may not bleed but if you do it can be more than just spotting and it can last several days.

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It's uncomfortable for most, painful for some. I don't remember my first time (it was only 5 months ago but I was extremely drunk). I was in a lot of pain the following day however, and for days afterwards. We didn't have lube or anything and it was somewhat forced, so I think it should be far more pleasant if you're genuinely happy with the guy.

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Yes, it generally is. More for some than others. Use lube and have plenty of foreplay so you’re “warmed” up. Don’t just go in all Willy nilly or it’ll be worse.

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I would say it’s more uncomfortable then anything. Make sure to use a condom. And lube always helps!

Is your first time having sex supposed to be a bit painful?

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