I feel so sad and need some advice.

I work at a daycare, I’m in the toddler room and my 8 week old started daycare this week. I’ve been trying not to go in too much so she can get used to it, and instead I’ve been peeking in the window to watch. My first complaint was that she was sleeping in a swing. I went in and moved her to her crib and she woke shortly after. I mentioned that she may do better in a back crib where it’s darker and the teacher said “yeah well she also does better sleeping in a swing so there’s that”.

At my daycare it’s against licensing to put her into a swing to sleep, once they’re sleeping you’re supposed to move them. She sleeps fine for me at home (I get it different environment) but they’re too lazy to even try.

My second concern was that she was in her sleep sack ALL DAY LONG. I work from 6-3 which means she was literally in it 9 hours. I didn’t ask why, I was too nervous. It’s not really okay with me, its not all that comfortable being swaddled all day and she doesn’t like it unless she’s sleeping.

My last concern was that when I went to pick her up, the same teacher said “thank god your here she’s getting crabby.” There she was again, in the swing not even making a noise. Theses teachers were so mad at me for not wanting her to sleep in a swing that they didn’t tell me how her day went or anything. I had to get my own bottles, my own daily sheet. And then I just left. I have no problem doing it, but any other parent doesn’t need to. I’m not sure if they think it’s okay because I’m a coworker but I’m so frustrated and I’m not sure how to go about it.

My boss is aware and is keeping an eye on the swing situation. And I also have a new hate for daycares. 🤷🏼‍♀️