Waisting time or actually cares?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over 2 months. We’ve hung out every opportunity we get. Go out we’ve met both family’s. I have a 6 month old that he has met and we hang out out with her often. Recently it’s been kinda walking on edge about actually being committed and putting the relationship title. When we’ve talked about it he says we are basically dating just no title but it’s leading that way. He says he isn’t interested in anyone else and doesn’t talk to anyone else. His family asked and he said he wants to take his time and actually thinking things thru before jumping into it because when he’s done it before it never worked out good. We’ve had sex once but he says he is just scared because the whole stepping into a family thing with me having a kid. He says he doesn’t want me to go thru what I went with my ex baby daddy. And wants to really think things they. What would you do? What advice do you guys?