So disappointed

So yesterday some of my mucus plug had came out, went out to wash clothes and grocery shopping getting things ready in the house ! Was pretty much walking all day from 2pm-10pm, Last night I was having contractions 4-5 minutes apart for almost 2 hrs (yes I was timing them) as I’m getting my daughter ready and myself to go to the hospital !!!! What do U know !!!! They stop 🛑 😣😖 i just go to sleep . This morning a biggger blooobbb of mucus plug came out , I’m just so ready right when I think ok this is it ! NOTHING —- I just wanna know when is the real deal my husband is currently out of state working and it would take him at least 2 hrs to get home if I do go into labor , btw yes I’m 4cm dilated and where I live I guess your not considered active labor till 5cm - sorry for the long post