He said he isn’t in love with me..

Soo I was taking to my BF of 5 YEARS. and asked him- do you love me?

He said yes.

I asked “are you IN LOVE with me?”

And he said no.

It totally caught me off guard.

We aren’t married.. I bring it up every now and then. But I get the same bs line “yes we will get married one day”

I have friends and family that are shocked that we aren’t married yet or engaged. They ask constantly.

It just made me feel weird and off. Cause I love him. With my whole heart. And am 100% in love with him... but now I just don’t know. Am I wasting my time?? What do I do....