Coming out?

Hi! I need some help.

So, I’ve been questioning for a while now. If anything, I’d be bi. I met a girl and went on a first date with her today, and a first date with a female. We both had a good time, and said we would want to go on another date. she even said, she wanted to kiss me but got to nervous.

I told my best friend and the girl I went out on a date with that I am questioning. Those two are the only ones who know.

I was planning on coming out if/when things work out with this girl. I kinda feel bad that I’m doing it this way. But the thing is, if things don’t work out with her, nothing will change how I feel towards females.

I need advice. Should I just come out now? Should I wait? Am I just kidding myself? Am I lying to myself?