Worried and upset

35 weeks pregnant here & getting induced around 38 weeks for complications. I NEED TO VENT. Anyhoo this is gonna be all over the place... I have nothing done for baby because I cant. All that's done is bag is packed and clothes are washed and in bins.

My husband and his family farm. His parents decided to build a new house and started building their new home in febuary of 2017, in which they had to demolish the other one. (They have 2 farms and 2 houses) so they have been living in what is suppose to be our home that they promised to us when we got pregnant (for a certain dollar amount and work, not just giving it). We have been trying since may of 2017 for a baby and finally got pregnant in July 2018. We told them at 6 weeks when we found out. they said we would be able to move in by Thanksgiving. Here is where I am currently in my mindset.

My husband and I are living with my mother (have been since the beginning of our pregnancy). She has been so gracious letting us stay here while his parents finish their house. We are unable to stay at the farm because it is only a 2 bedroom home and all bedrooms are taken.

We have moved all of our stuff including our brand new bed and furniture into the garage there as well as all of babys stuff (crib, bassinet etc). They told us in July they were going to get going on the house so we could move in before baby arrived. They have EVERYTHING ready in new house but 2 counter tops and the sink in the kitchen need to be put in. Literally the entire house is done but that and they continue to sit on their hands about it and not getting the guy to come out and finish the job. It has been sitting like this for about 2 months now. (Money isnt a problem for them). They could be moving their stuff to the new house and what not. They literally havent even started packing any of their stuff to move to the new house either. They aren't doing anything when they could be.... I probably sound ungrateful because we dont have to look for a home and what not. However if I knew this is what they were going to do I would have just wanted to go and find our own place which is out of the question now. Husband wants to farm. My husbands extended family has stated they think they are doing it to piss us off because my husband has a fulltime job and cant do everything his father wants him to do all the time. I feel like this is going to make me very unhappy with his parents and make me not like them or be around baby.

I cant set up any baby stuff at my mother's because she has a small home and we currently live up stairs in a small room where only a full size mattress fits on the floor. Seriously very emotional and upset. This is so nerve wracking and just a mess. I never had any problem with his parents and loved them but now I am feeling so hurt. Like they dont care about anything to do with us...

**Update: I feel like it is true what his family has said like using it as leverage. I have overheard his father say "if you aren't going to do this, you dont need to farm" blah blah and it just makes me sad. I dont want to think of them that way... my husband has made multiple comments about them getting moving and they keep saying "we are trying" when they aren't doing anything. My husband has basically been doing everything with the new house.. he done all the trim, him and his cousins did their hardwood floor, he has done so much for them to try to get them to move faster. Like they dont want to do any of the work and leave it all for him... then not calling the guy to come finish the job.. like how hard is it to say "hey we are ready for you to come finish". I am at the end of my rope.

If we were able to afford a place currently, we would. He will not get an apartment and "waste" money on something that wont be his. My husband is the only one with income right now because of how hard this pregnancy has been.