hooter's girls are a no-go

so my boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half now. he used to go out with some guy friends from work to Hooters, damn near every single night. i was starting to get uncomfortable with him going so much and, due to my past, i started panicking that he might've been messing around with a hooter's girl, like maybe flirting while he was there. i told him how i felt and all it did was stir drama and all we did was argue about it. he hasn't been in a long while, but tonight, he said he was going to a local restaurant, hopkins, with 2 dudes from work and their wives. okay, cool. me and him have a family tracker app so we know when the other gets home and to work safely, because we're both bad about telling each other when we made it somewhere, safely. i checked the app after not hearing from my boyfriend for nearly 3 or 4 hours. HE WAS AT HOOTERS!! so i texted him and no response, so i called and he answered. i asked him where he was and he told me Hooters, i asked why and he said he was headed home from hopkins and some other guys from work where there and wanted him to stop by. here it is, 9:30, nearly an hour or 2 since he was supposed to leave Hooters and call me to help me with a college essay. i texted him and asked where he was and when was he coming home and still no response. i feel like it's very disrespectful to me, as his girlfriend, to go somewhere i told him i wasnt comfortable with..I HAVE NEVER TOLD HIM HE CANNOT GO, but just that i didnt like it. am i being to much of a bitch or what?!?!