Doesn’t feel good when bf rubs clit

I’m always too sensitive and it never feels good when my bf is rubbing my clit. Even during sex. The only way I orgasm from clit stimulation is when I’m grinding on something on putting pressure on it. Is there something wrong with me?? I also want to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend. I orgasm through penetration but not every time and I can’t cum from oral. Any advice?