Hi ladies!

It’s 1 am and I just need to vent for a second. My husband and I are due in August with our 1st.

When we got pregnant he had a pretty great job that was able to support the family but my husband freaked out and had a mid life crisis all the sudden and wanted a new career path so he could “provide even more” for the family.

After a month of fighting him about a new “career” change (because I knew it wasn’t the best idea at the time), he took 3 months off to do what is a “coding bootcamp” where he learned to code. All during these 3 months he was NOT making money and kept telling me... oh I’ll get a job when I get my certificate... it will be easy because people always need people to code!

Well he is graduated and that is not the case. He has applied to about 100 jobs, no call backs nothing. I am working but I don’t make enough to pay the bills and he has used our “bill fund” (we had about 4 months of bill money that is now used up since he hasn’t been working). So coming the end of April and beginning of may if he doesn’t find a job making what he was making before he quit his job, we can’t pay bills!!

I am so beyond frustrated because I didn’t think quitting his job was a good idea but he would not listen and eventually just quit because he was so sure he could get a job when he graduated this “coding bootcamp.” It was to the point fighting about it was ruining our marriage.

Now idk what we are going to do. He thinks he will still get one in time and doesn’t seem worried despite me telling him... we don’t have enough to pay bills.

He doesn’t pay our bills, budget or even look at our bank account so he doesn’t know!! I’m so beyond frustrated. Ugh.

He is called to ask for his old job back (they did say when he left if they had a spot, he could come back) but nobody answered or called him back. He is trying to call again tomorrow (I’m making him, he didn’t want to) so fingers crossed.

Prayers are needed because I feel so stressed I can’t sleep.