so my best friend has been in a really manipulative relationship for a bout six months. recently they broke up, which was supposed to be for good this time. then she tells me that they’re still sleeping together, which annoyed me but what can i do you know. 🤷🏼‍♀️

well then she sends me a text that says “i’m gonna tell the girl that he’s been seeing that we’re still sleeping together lol” kind of just to be funny and petty, and that really got under my skin especially being someone who has been cheated on before.

so i reached out to the girl. i told her that i wasn’t sure how serious her and the guy were, but that i felt guilt for not telling her just in case. all she said was “okay, thank you for telling me”. so i had no clue if they were serious or what she was going to do next. i sent the messages to her knowing that if my friend found out that it would make her really mad, but i did it anyway because i wished someone would have reached out to me when i was in her position.

my friend says that it wasn’t my place, my response was that i’ve been that girl and she has too, and if she doesn’t remember how painful it was or doesn’t care that she may be hurting someone else then i’ve outgrown her.

would you have done it differently?

update!!! my friend messaged the girl and apologized to her and made sure that everything was good. she sees why i told her now and everything is back to normal. thank you ladies for your kind words and letting me know that you agreed with me, it definitely was the right thing to do.