Migraine and FMLA

I am so fed up with migraines. I recently started getting them 2 months ago. Right as I started my new job. My new job is very stressful for me. It’s hard work, and I feel like everyone hates me cause I’m the only girl in my dept and I cannot physically do things the men can. It’s working with a lot of tools and of course I have no idea half the time what I’m doing. That makes me even more scared. I’m not sure if the stress is causing my migraines or not. My dr thinks so. She advised me to apply for FMLA but I don’t want to be “that person” as it’s (FMLA) severely abused at my company and they would know if I got it. (They always do) I’m using up a lot of vacation in the meantime trying to deal with the migraines. I don’t know what to do. I hate my job and life right now. Sucks coming into work not knowing how to do half the shit and knowing people hate me.