Lesbian couple trying to conceive

Hello, my wife and I are a lesbian couple that are about to try and get pregnant. We have finally picked someone to donate the sperm and will be doing it at home ourselves. Need advice, or should I say input. I have read thru the post to see if this has been a post prior, didn't see anything. Don't want to get to graphic, we have a some what of a game plan on how we are going to go about it. No neither one of us are gonna get penetrated. She is gonna insert his sperm inside of me. We have contacted our insurance because at first, we intended to go thru a doctor's office. But procedures and sperm as well as tests are too expensive. My ideal route would have been to take her stem cell and insert it into my egg, but that too is expensive. What do you ladies think?