Unwanted

Does anyone’s significant other seem uninterested in you now that you’ve gained weight and started showing? With my first sons dad he couldn’t keep his hands off of me but my now husband doesn’t even come near me unless I beg him... I’ve always had confidence issues but lately I just want to cry (like I am now)... he’s not mean or anything but as far as affection goes, the cat he’s allergic to gets more than I do.