Sex 8 weeks PP


Has anyone tried having sex? My husband and I have tried multiple times and it hurts SO bad. I feel like I’m being pinched continuously inside. We have done other things and I have used tampons, none of that hurts, but sex omg. My husband has been great and not pushy at all, but I’m ready for sex again. We have tried lots of lube, but it didn’t help much. I had a second degree tear from a vaginally delivery. My OB has to practically pull my baby out, so I had lots of swell and a couple torn vessels that had to be stitched. Any advice to make sex less painful??