Married. One toddler. No job.

My husband. Known five years. We have one kid together. He used to have a job. But doesn’t seem to hold the same job for more than three-five months. Now he doesn’t and doesn’t seem to be looking for another. All he does is play video games, yet still there for our daughter. He does get panic attacks and anxiety (main reason why he couldn’t hold a job) but doesn’t want to go to the doctors for it. I was a stay at home mom but now I’m looking for a job.

He is 25 years old. He was thinking about joining the military but backed away from it because of the anxiety. He chats on this gaming Discord and shares photos of hentai with other gamers (male and female gamers). He also talks to other women. He really sounds immature. Who did I marry?

How do I deal with this?

I don’t know why he doesn’t have any motivation to provide for our family? I say this because when we first met, he kept talking about how the men should provide for the women, blah blah blah. Everything he told me when we first started dating, he is doing the total opposite now.

I feel like he just doesn’t want any responsibility.