a couple years ago my world turned upside down when I learned at 19 weeks that my baby girl had a severe birth defect. The chances of it happening again are rare but more increased due to it happening before. I’m now 9 weeks pregnant and ALL i can think about is trying to prepare myself for this baby to have something severely medically wrong with it. Was just wondering if there are any mommas out there who have had babies with rare severe birth defects and then had a healthy baby, that could give me a little reassurance! Even if there is something medically wrong with this baby, as long as it can be managed and he or she would have a quality of life I’m more than willing to take on the challenges but I’m just terrified that he or she will be so sick again that again my baby won’t have any quality of life 😞