Fiancé family not involved with baby UPDATE
Is this normal? Do I have every right to be annoyed? My daughter is 10.5 months and her uncles (Fiancé brothers) do not bother calling to see how my daughter doing, doesn’t visit, no Xmas gifts etc. idk if age has something to do with it. Me and my fiancé are 25 and his brothers are 21 and 27. None of them have kids. My daughter is the first born on my fiancé side of the family. Her grandparents on my fiancé side doesn’t even reach out either. They were never involved in the pregnancy either and it just frustrates me that they are putting my daughter on the back burner. I understand they have lives on their own and have girlfriends they rather see but come on my poor daughter doesn’t even know her uncles or grandparents. She met each other them maybe 3-4 times each. And they all live in the same small city!! Like what really ticks me off.
My family is the complete opposites they show so much attention to my daughter and actually have a relationship with her. Honestly wouldn’t be surprised if none of them go to her birthday party next month.
Any advice? My fiancé is fed up too and has said something to his mom but. Nothing has changed.
Update 4/8/19:
I see what some of you are saying but then again it’s not just his brother but also his parents who are completely not interested. His brothers do call and once in a while come over and show absolutely no interest in their niece. We call to them to meet up and get no response. His dad flat out just doesn’t care. We try reaching out and I think I’m just annoyed that no one in his family reaches out. 99% of the time his mom can’t even remember her own grand daughter name. I just find it rude
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