Rant....husband being unreasonable.

So I am 36W 2D.....along with that I have a hyperactive 3yo toddler who's at home. My husband who is generally reasonable and helpful has been acting crazy since yesterday. He has suddenly got excess workload at office and doesnt help me out with his son even after being back from work. Understandably, he is working from home so I let my toddler watch TV since I cant rum after him. But later he suddenly gets time to chat on phone with his friend regarding a deal on some home device. And after that to his mom for like 20 mins. Soon as the phone disconnects, he is busy as a bee again and doesnot help put my now cranky toddler put to sleep. My son at this point is so cranky that he is kicking and hitting and all I can do is to calmly maintain a safe distance. But husband is dead at this point and working at office. I finally get my son to sleep after getting some light kicks from him but still snuggling him. Now next day morning we come for breakfast and he is like...why did you keep this in refrigerator? Why didn't you do this? So I said that because you didn't help so I just do my way. ...and boom....we start arguing. Things settle after an hour. And then I ask him to bring the laundry load in the basket from upstairs because remember I am heavily pregnant and I dont want to carry that on stairs. And he goes like it's so much work..JUST to dump clean laundry in a basket and bring it downstairs...and I an not even asking him to fold..that is still my job. He hasn't fold a SINGLE piece of clothing in years. I am just soooooooo annoyed with his insensitivity. Sorry about the long rant but it had to get out.

UPDATE/ MORE RANT : 37w 3d today. I havmt slept thru night with multiple trips to toilet and discomfort. I just has guests leave my home after 4 days..HIS friends and family. Agreed they helped out with a lot of stuff and it was still my home and I had to take care of stuff. I was waiting patiently for them to leave and finally start preparing for baby washing old stuff and sanitizing around the house ...and guess what. Another friend of his with family is coming in 2 days to stay with us....39w pregnant I will be. This one is even worse, they took the airline ticket without even asking us. My husband as usual is like you dont have to do anything. But obviously he doesn't care. I am so done with this.