Cant keep up... TMI

Catherine

Ok ladies, I need some advice. I cant seem to find my sex drive, and my dh is one of those men that wants it EVERYDAY multiple times sometimes... he is CONSTANTLY talking about it and completely kills any kind of drive I had. He will ask me mid day if we are having sex that night I have tried to explain to him that he cant just wake up and automatically think he's getting laid that night. Then pouts like a baby when i say no. I feel bad but it's so annoying... he really gets in a tizzy when we skip a day! I just want to feel sexually attracted to my husband again and not feel like it's a chore... I want my drive back.. when we first met 2x a day or more was normal! But now he masturbates more than we have sex! I do have depression and am medicated but the meds make it worse.. he says it bothers him that there is no foreplay or anything leading up to it but how am I supposed to even get turned on when it feels like work all the time!! We could get done and he's already talking about the next time whether it be right after or the next day its ALWAYS PREMEDITATED! Am I alone here?

Sorry so long I just dunno what to do! Cant have a baby if I dont wanna BD! PLEASE HELP! ANY ADVICE?!

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