Insight please ?

I’m in a marriage where my husband doesn’t care about my emotional well-being and is quite selfish when it comes to a difference in opinions. He’s impossible to sit down and talk to/communicate with, and always acts like he’s too good for this or like he doesn’t give a shit. I’m not sure how to even go about trying to find a solution.

We were both in the military until I got pregnant and decided to get out. We’re now living on his income and I am wanting to be a stay at home mom for a few years before I busy myself with work again. I wouldn’t have a place to go or a stable job if we got a divorce. But at the same time, I don’t want to stay with him only for the financial stability. But I have to think about what’s best for the baby as well.