Ya girl needs advice

So me and my boyfriend have been together alittle over a year now, and our sex life is great! The only thing wrong, is we’re nothing alike in bed... I can’t really say it’s a turn-off cause he gets the job done and he drives me insane. When I say we’re nothing alike is, I’m kinky. He is NOT. I’ve tried to get him to try new things.. ya know talk dirty, call me names. Hell I told the bitch to spank me and he laughed😂. I don’t know what to do. Help a girl out....