bfp.. A STORY
I know posting this on here is controversial but don't have much people to talk to so figured I might try to get some advice. I'm 21 years old my bf 20 yrs old and I just found out I'm pregnant. I can't be more than 5 weeks if that. I broke the news to my bf (of only 3 months) last night and we never really discussed anything until tonight as I told him last night abortion wasn't an option and I think he was in shock so we didn't discuss anything. On the way home I started to get upset when THE conversation arose. Back story.. My bf is in the military and previously married going thru a divorce at that. He says he's not necessarily ready for a child but if I choose to keep it he will man up and take care of it. He brought up how it's going to be incredibly hard for me to do the things I wish to do, obvi upset me. college, new car, financially stable etc. He made it clear how much easier it is for him- being have it paid for w military to do those things. He's well off for his age and made it clear he would 100% be there for me either way. But also brought up all the points of -his job being demanding could leave for deployment at anytime & I would be alone. -made it clear I wouldn't beable to travel as easy with him like he planned of getting stationed in italy. -I have teeth that need to be fixed to be healthy and I have crappy medicaid. -he wants a house and to be married before a child... He 100% stated the fact he isn't ready and is kind of talking me into this. Also made a big deal about I not being on his insurance.. Said a child is a bill he isn't necessarily ready to flip. I know he would be supportive either way considering he was talking about baby names last night but I feel alone in this. I'm extremely emotional right now as well making this 100x harder lol. I never really considered and abortion until all his reasonings. Thoughts on HIS pov?
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