Before sex he would ALWAYS run upstairs and clean his penis off with a wet soapy wash cloth, That was when sex was 1-2 times a month for many, many years

NOW? Sex suddenly is 3 times a week, A BIG change from 1-2 times a month.

Before he was saying he can't get it up

Now it seems he can a lot more

I asked why don't you clean off anymore

He said I showered...

Ya before you'd shower as well but still clean off before we had sex

He said now he uses a dry towel and rubs him self off down there

We always use condoms too....