PP and still no sex

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Anonymous bc I am embarrassed, but I just need to get this off my chest and was wondering if anyone else is in the same boat. Baby is four months. We STILL have not had sex. Between my husband's work schedule, taking care of a baby and the house and the pets and not sleeping and so many things combined, we rarely have time together and when we do we are so tired or the baby is awake. I rarely feel in the mood either, especially when I'm ebf and my body feels like it's not even made for anything but taking care of baby. Not the biggest fan of my postpartum body , don't exactly feel attractive lounging around in yoga pants and a top knot each day. Plus we don't live near anyone really so there is no one to just watch the baby for a little bit so that we can go out and be adults alone together. I just needed to get it off my chest. Anyone experiencing anything like this? Any solutions?

Edit: took it off anonymous since everyone is being so kind and sharing their experiences 💕