Boyfriend jacking off

I’m on bc, and sometimes my sex Drive JUST ISNT THERE! 😪 and I completely hate it because me and my bf go from having daily sex to nothing for days/weeks. And he keeps making remarks to me such as “I’m jacking off cause you ain’t doing nothing” “I shouldn’t have to jack off if you’re here”...but I can’t force myself to have sex, I just can’t. I feel bad because he has needs but I also have to think about me...earlier today while I was napping he jacked off (told me when I woke up) so I got up to go fix some food and walked back in the room and he’s watching porn jacking off again and I asked him “could you please not do that or go in the bathroom?” And he says “you can leave, go back in the kitchen”...I feel shitty. Cause I think it’s ultimately disrespectful

EDIT: I just had a convo with him and he goes “you’re upset because I’m jacking off in MY room” (because it’s his apartment and he’s asked me to stay over since last Thursday since I’m on spring break)

In my opinion, it’s still disrespectful because you asked me to be here and you should respect me somewhat at least