Any single mother in the same situation?

Question

I’m currently 4 weeks 6 days 
My boyfriend ran off after I told him I was pregnant. He suffered from depression and it’s currently unemployed. He decided he was way too toxic to be around this baby. So he left me alone in this process. 
At first I wanted to abort and I told him about my decision, he called me out and say I was a baby killer and how I was the worst person to think about killing a baby. So I came to a point and decided to keep it yet he left me alone specially now that I need someone emotionally. I’m 23 years old, I have a 3 years old daughter,  I’m a full time worker, going back to school in the fall. I will definitely be needing my mom help which sucks because I love my own space but I don’t know how would I be able to afford rent at least for the last 2/3 months of this pregnancy. 
The father of my 3 years old is in her life which I’m happy for that. I feel like a total failure. I don’t know what to do. Definitely keeping this baby that’s all I know. 
I want to hear from those who have gotten through their whole pregnancy alone without a partner...

Answer

I’m not in the exact same situation, but I’ll tell you my story if it helps. My ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. I just found out I was pregnant yesterday. I told him what was going on, and he basically told me he met somebody else and didn’t want to be a part of the child’s life. I’m only 18 and I’ll be doing this all on my own. You can message me if you need somebody to talk to ❤️

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I’m 19 now, but when I first found out I was pregnant I was 17. Also in kinda a similar situation where my boyfriend (now ex) left me but even before I knew I was pregnant. Months later I contacted him to tell him I was pregnant and as expected, I still had to do this alone. He said that he had so much going on that he wasn’t ready to be a dad right now. I knew then I couldn’t force him or anyone to be apart of my baby’s life whether I did whatever. Only he can choose and for him that’s a loss because now that I’ve seen my baby grow, he’s really missing out. Because I knew I was doing this alone; I became more focused and dedicated for me to grow as a person but also my baby. I have a job, I graduated high school, in college still, and I was earning credit and saving money to buy a house which I’m still in debt but I have a monthly plan to be paying it. School isn’t a lot because my income as a single mother benefits the government to help me pay my classes. But I am so proud as of where I am now. YOULL BE FINE without him. Trust me you will. Babies are always a blessing and honestly Im happier everyday because I get to see my baby do new things everyday. It’s okay to be scared and ask for help, this is not an easy process what so ever but you’re strong. You got this and best wishes to you

Any single mother in the same situation?

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