Wish me strength

All right ladies, I'm headed to pick my mom up and then drive 2 hours to pick my father up. He's being discharged from the hospital after minor surgery, I'll take them home and get them settled. Total Car time with Mama is 4 hours, 2 with my father. The catch is that my husband really doesn't want us to tell them that we are pregnant until after we've seen a heartbeat and my first ultrasound isn't scheduled until next week.

So I have a long list of anything else to talk about wish me strength and discretion!

I'm a bit more in the camp of telling everybody that I would tell where I had to go through miscarriage while he is a more private person and we talked about it for several days, rationally I feel very settled about agreeing with him on this but it's going to be hard in the moment.