Needing help. Please someone

I’m really pissed off. So I went to go see my OB. I walked in and she asked me all kinds of questions. My husband and I have been wanting a baby. I haven’t been able to get pregnant. I have irregular cycles I missed the last two month. I started on April 5th and ended the 6th. My primary care Doctor thought “Hm.. you might have PCOS”. Well OB said “No sweetie you don’t have PCOS. It’s normal. But with you being diabetic type 2 you could one either miscarry or two the baby dies”. Then she did my Pap smear and it all came back normal. She said “I would stop trying and go back to using condoms”. What do I do? How do I get pregnant? I’ve lost 20 pounds and all, I eat healthy, I exercise, and my numbers are under control. My Doc increased the dosage on my metformin and I just want a baby.