Men complaining

I love being a “Stay-At-Home” mother! Nothing is better than being able to be home with your baby!

But times I just need a break! I couldn’t get one when my daughter first came home after 116 days in the NICU because she was on oxygen and cardiac monitor.. and I was the only one able to handle and also know what’s happening.

She’s now healthy and it’s been almost a year being home! And I am currently pregnant with baby #2!

Been having severe nausea and having a baby crawling everywhere and teething! I’m exhausted.

My fiancé gives me a hard time saying that I’m lucky and blessed to be a stay at home mom and that most mothers would love to do what I do.. so I don’t need a break.. and this is what he says when I tell him I need an hour break! Cause he comes home and tells me he needs an hour to himself and to unwind. Says that he hates me being pregnant because I get nauseous or I am tired and he always wants to go out. Tells me that he works with pregnant women.. gives me a hard time.

And when I pumped every 4 hours he would complain about how he can’t wait till I am done pumping.. yet he preaches how Breast milk is the best.. no formula.. so just annoying.

It’s like men don’t and won’t understand till they do what we do. And it is like when they do watch the baby/child for an hour or two.. they lose their mind and wonder how we do it all day.. and then it disappears the next day..

Anyone else have this with their loved one?