Porn before sex??

Question

I don’t know if it’s just me and my hormonal ass, but my bf watches porn literally before every time we have sex. Which is barely ever. I’m feeling really insecure about it, like is he not attracted to me anymore? Or am I just overreacting?
He also doesn’t know that i know he does it.

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Could be an addiction.  Porn can cause problems sexually.  I personally know somebody who had to work really hard to be able to overcome the addiction and be with his girlfriend and cum without using porn. It's an embarrassing issue though. And some people don't know this even exists.

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My boyfriend only watches porn when I don’t feel like having sex and he wants to jerk it. But sometimes we watch porn together to get new ideas and get turned on. It’s exciting. 
He can usually be turned on by just making out with me though. 
Just talk to him and express to him that up don’t like it.

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Men are almost always turned on by their visual sense. This is most of the time not what we are turned on by, so we tend undersetimate how much his eyes contribute to his sex drive. Add to that the fact that we often feel insecure about our bodies and try to hide it, while that is the one thing that will almost always make him horny.
If you are feeling insecure about your body, just stop it. Show him your body. I can guarantee you that you are ten times more critical of yourself than he is. Keep the lights on, use positions where he can see you, like doggy or you on top.

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It probably turns him on and gets him more in the mood. I watch it sometimes before sex with my husband for the same reason. Doesn’t mean I’m not attracted or turned on by my husband. Sometimes we watch it together.

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It sounds like he's a little fixated on the rush he can get from porn. Some people get addicted to it and rely on it, it's different from a real sexual situation. 
I think it's usually people who have intimacy issues who get fixated on porn.

Porn before sex??

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