Talking with friends

So last night I went out for drinks with my girls, and we got into talking about sex and I shared that neither I or my husband go down on each other. My friends were mortified by this fact, asking me how I deal. Tbh I didn’t think it was such a big deal, he’s never gone down on me and because of that I stopped giving bjs, I’ve asked him why he chooses not too and he says it’s something he doesn’t like to do, it’s fine with me. I’m still able to orgasm and so is he, I just didn’t think it was such a big deal. Is this weird? Isn’t it to each there own?