Is it safe to use a vibrator while pregnant?

Fox • Lover of literature, art, minds, wonder, and the love of my life-my wife. 😄

My wife and I are nervous to have sex. She's 35 weeks pregnant and I can feel the baby, I think, inside when I use my fingers. Where I once felt her cervix I now feel a hard round mass and it hurts when I touch a certain place. It feels different when we have sex. We thought maybe using a vibrator like a rabbit but are Afraid the vibrating will harm the Baby so we haven't played in weeks which is hard and we won't be able to once she's born too.

What are some safe options to remain intimate?