My OH waivers back and forth between wanting to know the sex and not wanting to know at all. We think we already know from out 15 week ultrasound but not 100% sure. Now that I think I know, I WANT to know. I initially left the decision up to him but I don’t want to spend my entire pregnancy THINKING I’m having one gender and then have it turn out to be another.

When I told him this, he’s just very relaxed “we have time, don’t worry” when in reality, the anatomy scan is next week and there probably won’t be more scans after that. He hasn’t been able to make a decision about it for the last few months and I don’t see him coming to a decision before the scan.

I’m debating doing a sneak peek and keeping the news to myself (already have an entire gender neutral nursery and wardrobe purchased, so I wouldn’t be buying anything that would give it away) unless he changes his mind and really wants to know. He doesn’t want me to know without him deciding to find out though, so I’d have to keep it secret from him.

Would you do it?