Did I over react ?

Something had happened recently my mom had picked me up from my boyfriends house for the first time, she’s aware that I go over there I’ve been for the past 9 months. He picks me up and brings me back home the time my curfew is right. But something had happened he couldn’t take me back home that day so I had told my mom, because I did not want to be out of the house for such a long time. She comes and tells my boyfriend shit calls him a bum, and that he doesn’t respect anything etc. She had talked to me about how it’s disrespectful and I of course apologized. The next day we had gone to a birthday Party her friends were there we were eating that at the table she starts saying stuff like “ she’ll never be nothing in life” “ how if I do become something I’ll probably have to take care of my husband instead of the other way around” but what triggered me the most of what she said is that “ she doesn’t respect herself or me”. Which that hurt like she’s called me so many things over the past few years at one point she called me a “prostitute” and how I dressed like one. Anyway back to where I was at I was to the point in where I was just about cry in front of everyone so I decided to leave and walk home which was not that far, but I don’t want to feel as if I over reacted. I’m sorry if this is to long I just don’t want to feel as if I just did it to get attention or was wrong of me.