Call or wait for appointment

Let me start by saying I know my doctors work for me and that's why they are there but I have anxiety about being seen as "that patient" and don't want to have to make a trip I don't have to because I have no way to get to the hospital or have childcare right now. Please don't just say to call because it's better safe than sorry, I know, I'm wondering if this should be taken as a serious issue that is the symptom of something that needs to be addressed today

I feel like I'm overly paranoid but have to ask because I have no friends or anyone to ask. I'm 34 weeks and 6 days pregnant and had very bad preeclampsia with my first pregnancy and by this point I had already been admitted to the hospital, maybe that's why I'm paranoid. I've been in and out of triage for high BP and other symptoms of preeclampsia this go around but not admitted because I haven't spilled protein. Today I've noticed my face does seem swollen, more so than pregnancy swelling and my right arm and hand are a different color and swollen compared to my left. I feel like I have called my OB so much and been seen in triage with no issues presenting at triage so many times that my OB probably thinks I'm crazy and it makes me hesitate on calling about things like this. I also have my son and nephew and there is no one else to watch them and no way for me to get there if I was told to go in right now, my husband can't leave work, there is literally no way and my sister works as well and can't just leave. I'm just curious if y'all call on everything or if y'all would just bring it up at your next appointment? My next appointment is on May 2nd so next week.

Picture of my hands compared to eachother

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