Relationship advice

Dori

So it’s really a complicated situation but how would you feel about your significant other going on vacation with their child, bm, and some of her family members for the child’s birthday . . Child is 5 and the bm relationship with girlfriend is nonexistent hate each other and girlfriend of 3 years we’ll 2 and maybe 8 months can’t be around child 🤦🏽‍♀️