Are these thoughts normal?

Question

My husband has asked for a divorce more than once but won’t sign papers he does not want one when he’s calm 
When he feels depressed he feels worthless and asks for one than once he’s out of that state he doesn’t want one. 
Anyways I have heard it so much that I believe it to be true he doesn’t want me or us I have it in my head to let him go and just file the damn divorce....
Are my thoughts normal? 
Will they ever go away?

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He needs to seek a professional to work through his feelings. Also maybe go to couples therapy to help with issues causing him to say he wants a divorce. It’s really taxing to go through this. If you both truly love each other still it’s worth trying to work things out.

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His thoughts aren’t normal. I think you’re are completely in sync with the situation. How are you going to believe otherwise if he keeps saying it to you?
I’d get in to see a couples counselor. My husband and I had a rough patch a few years back and it saved our marriage.

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Talking about divorce all the time isn’t normal. I don’t care how angry you are. My husband and I sometimes crack jokes about what we would do if we split up but we never ask each other
For a divorce in an argument.

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I feel like there have been MANY recent posts lately very similar to this one...husband states he wants a divorce every time he is angry or upset but later says he didn’t meant it. Not sure if this is the same person who had been posting the other recent posts but if so....get a lawyer and get the papers yourself and initiate the actual divorce. After so many times of saying you want one but “not meaning it” later is a huge red flag and there is likely true meaning behind it or he wouldn’t be saying it so often. And it’s not fair to you.

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I meant to push no

Are these thoughts normal?

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