He can’t get hard...is it me?

Question

Recently my SO can’t get hard when we forplay or are in the mood. I know there may be a different reason causing this, but I can’t help but feel like it’s because of me that he can’t get hard. We’ve talked about it and he says he has never had this problem before with previous partners, so that’s discouraging. We’ve tried everything at this point. I can’t get out of my head about it now when we initiate something at this point. Is it weird to think that it’s me?

Answer

Well how can it be you if he use to be able to get hard for you. Maybe he’s cheating or is turned off by something else. Or maybe he has erectile dysfunction and it lying about the fact that this doesn’t happen with other women. Men do tend to blame us for their short comings. Like making fun of women being dry when really she’s dry because he doesn’t know what he’s doing and isn’t turning her on

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Hah welcome to my world. I’ve been with males 18-35 and I can say that about 50% have this problem. Erectile dysfunction. And of course, it has ‘never happened before omg babe’ 
I’ve been a GF to a BF that had an Erectile dysfunction problem for 2 years. Like the lord only knows how strong my neck is from giving that little bastard BJ’s until he would at least get a semi. And he was healthy as a horse. Diet/exercise have a good part to do with it, other people say that porn has shaped their minds to expect...more from sex I suppose. Drugs also will have impacts on little Willy. Certain antidepressants for example. But the biggest reason in my opinion is just their mentality. Like they think they cannot get hard because of... whatever reason. May it be fear of the pussy, fear of poor performance,  or just confidence problems in general. Good luck honey 😂🙏

Answer

if it just recently started it’s probably not you. a reason it may be happening now and not with other partners is he is getting older and/ or may be developing a condition. ask him to go to the doctor. has he been able to get hard with you in the past?

Answer

no, it’s not you. he’s just nervous.

He can’t get hard...is it me?

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