miscarriage topic..

a family friend of mine was pregnant with twins and went to the doctor for her first appointment and there were no heartbeats.. my concern is, they are making her hold the babies in her belly for 22 whole days until they can see her with an appointment to clean out the babies.. she said she hasn’t felt ‘pregnant’ for a couple weeks now. my question is could this hurt her? I mean emotionally this has ruined her and having to carry them 22 more days is intense as well... I just want to know if she should be showing her butt and making them see her sooner or what... I just couldn’t imagine..

to add: she wants them out NOW. she doesn’t want to carry them any longer than she has to. she has had a still born son and said she’d just rather them take them from here NOW. sooo sad. I feel like it should be what the mother wants.

they’re not doing this so she can do it naturally it’s just the next available appointments they have.