So much stress rant/ just getting this off my chest

Mickey

I had my gallbladder taken out last thursday and thats stressful enough. To add 10 minutes after I had called my husband that I was leaving recovery I get a call from his brother saying that my husband had got in a motorcycle wreck. So instead of going home to rest after surgery my mom drove me two hours to the hospital that my husband was ambulanced to. He had spun on some gravel going around a curve and went into the ditch and was then ejected head over off his bike where he struck a tree. He has 3 broken ribs, 3 broken vertebrae in his back, a fractured ankle, a punctured lung, stretched tendons in his neck, not to mention all the bruises and scratches and he has to wear a back brace for minimum of six weeks to possibly six months and same goes for his ankle boot. We have a 5 week old at home and my husband was supposed to help me with her after my gallbladder got taken out. But now this has happened and my mom has been helping out. Hes going to be out of work for who knows how long. Im a stay at home mom while finishing my college degree which dont know if Im going to manage that now. Money was already tight we didnt have amything in savings left really at least not enough to cover something like this. Im only producing half of what my baby needs right now. Trying to get a handle of this whole pumping thing and only getting like an oz or 2 at each sesh so im having to supplement. Family has made a gofundme account for us because there is no way we can afford any of our bills right now when we were had very little extra at the end of each week. I really want to keep breastfeeding but am having to pump after this surgery and then also on top of that am getting two absesses cut and drained this week on my breasts so will have to pump until those heal. Im majorly stressing and trying to be tough for my family. Our family has helped where they can and when they can but this is alot all at once. I feel like I can air out my feelings here because around family im trying to pull through but really im drowning in all these insurance talks, money talks, work stuff. He hasnt been released yet and he may have to go to a rehab center for a week. Im dreading those bills. I just dont know what to do.

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