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So I’ve just started having a sexual relationship with my best friend of 15 years! I’ve been secretly in love with her for most of the time. My husband of 22years knows. He is willing to let me be with her as long as he is a part of it. So he isn’t feeling like he is being cheated on. My husband and I communicate everything. I want her as a wife. My friend isn’t sure what she wants yet as this is all new to her.  How does polyamory work? Is there jealousy? Do we have to keep our love life a secret? How does this work?

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how does it work is an odd question lol but I would definitely give ur friend time to process it all...to me it's a free n open and there shouldn't be any jealousy this is not for jealous ppl...and it's really up to u how u guys choose to be but I couldn't imagine being secretive about my loves...we go out on dates, family functions get togethers n have no shame in public displays of affection among us...ex. all holding hands kisses hugs sexual looks lol if anyone is afraid of ppl knowing idk how to answer that but I guarantee u I haven't had anything but positive reactions and millions of questions from curious ppl...no one was really negative about us and that could be who I surround myself with positive vibes, judgement free zone, open minded individuals n as long as were happy no one cares...i hope this helps...any other questions I could answer i will do my best

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Do your homework to learn about common newbie screw-ups. I recommend the website and book More Than Two by Franklin Veaux.

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