Am I a bad mom

Everyone has been judging my parenting lately and it’s making me feel depressed. For Easter, I didn’t get my 1.5 year old daughter any candy, juice or anything of that sort my sister messages me asking if our mom got any candy for my daughter I told her no I don’t want her to have any candy and then my SO is mad and being rude because I won’t give our daughter any juice when all he used to do is give her juice non stop and it pissed me off so I said no to juice. Am I a bad mom? 😒