trigger!!!!!!!!! was this consent?

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i was with my boyfriend at the time in bed, we’d had sex earlier in the day and he wanted to go again. i said i wasn’t in the mood but he kept begging me and i did say no, he stripped me anyway but i didn’t stop him, he started having sex with me and it hurt because we’d just had it and i never said yes i just laid there, he also filmed without my consent. i don’t know what to call it, it wasn’t rape? but it wasn’t consent? but i didn’t fight back or anything

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you told him no, you never said yes, and he did it anyways. thats rape.

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The filming part though, is not okay what so ever

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Girl, this was rape. You said no- he didn’t listen. “No” does not mean “convince”, and a person should not have to repeatedly say no for the other to get the message.

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That was rape. Some people go into shock and don’t respond and they stay still. Sounds like this is what happened. Just because you didn’t do anything or because he wasn’t “forceful” means it wasn’t rape. You. Said. No. And you said stop it. He did not respect you. I’m so sorry this happened to you. If you haven’t already, perhaps consider getting therapy if you feel that you need it.

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It’s not right

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Saying nothing doesn’t mean yes

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Did you physically say no? Or stop? Or physically try pulling away?

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You never said yes but you didn’t physically stop him either. So I’m not sure. It’s kind of on you for not being more direct by pushing him off and yelling but, it also wasn’t cool for him to do it. Just my opinion so don’t come at me people.

trigger!!!!!!!!! was this consent?

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