I live in a state 10 hours from my hometown... my mom wants to come down after the baby comes but wants to bring her boyfriend and my sister who is severely handicapped.. she says she finds breastfeeding embarrassing so if I want to breastfeed in my own home I have to find a place to do it privately. She also doesn’t feel like her or any of them should have to get their TDAP before coming. I’m starting to get to the point where I just want to say DONT COME! Is this unreasonable? She has no plans to help me clean, or cook. I know she wants to pass my baby around until he does anything inconvenient then give him back to me. What would you do if you were me??