Is it wrong?

Question

I just recently told my boyfriend I want to have babies with him, and he said he wanted to as well. But it doesn’t really seem like he’s making much of an effort. Do you think it’s wrong that I’m using preseed and not telling him? Even though he says he wants to try for a baby as well?

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You should tell him. That’s not something you keep from your SO. If he wants to try like he says he does than he will be ok with it. If he changes his mind about trying than respect his wishes.

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Yes it’s wrong. You need to both be on the same page with TTC. Talk to him and if he’s ready then awesome. If he’s not then you need to leave it alone.

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Yes you should tell him even if he "wants" a baby as well. Communication is super important in a relationship.

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Saying you want a baby is COMPLETELY different from agreeing to try for a baby.
The fact you’re using part of his body (preseed) without his permission is a form of entrapment, manipulation, lying, and abuse.
I don’t think what you’re doing is okay. You shouldn’t use part of someone’s body for your own means. Just because you want a baby and you’re dating, it doesn’t mean you have a right to use his seed.

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Preseed is just lube. 🤷‍♀️

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There's really only one thing a guy needs to be doing to make a baby... and that's you, if I wasn't obvious enough. Lol.

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For those who keep arguing that preseed comes out of a man. It does NOT. Lol

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yes. inform your partner of anything you’re doing that may impact their life. that’s common sense.

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