Talking to a doctor finally


So I have a doctors appt Tuesday to go over my fertility worries. What should I expect? I’ve had a hard time in the past getting doctors listen to my worries and just sending me out (all things medical, not just ttc)

Long story short.m, we have been trying for a year, had a miscarriage in January. On top of that, in my previous marriage of 6 years we tried and nothing. I just am worried about trying to get help and getting told “it will happen when you aren’t trying” or any of the other things people say.

How have you gotten your doctors to do their job and help you and not just shrug you off?